matter what they say, women do not want nice guys.....except as friends they can cry to about the last jerk they went for right before they go for the next jerk to come along. If you want the girl, you’re going to have to be much more hard nosed about pursuing the things you want. Being nice won’t get you there
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Is true! Last girl I asked out on a date went on and on about how I didn’t make her feel safe and told everyone on the job.
Then she started to want me when I dismissed her and looked elsewhere instead, and the whole office found out I didn’t care.
That was a painful lesson for me.
I saw more than a few girls that I were friends with go out and seek guys who would beat them.
Which in turn, I would go have a discussion with said guys that involved telling them how long it takes a body to disappear in a hog pin.
I very quickly determined that most of those girls really wanted a guy that hit them. It plugged into some sort of need for them.
Working in a sorority in college taught me a lot about women. Which is why I never dated ANY of those women in the sorority.