I'm a traditionalist, but refused the whole FEED EACH OTHER THE CAKE bit, at our wedding. No, neither of us would have done the smash cake thing...I just didn't want to do the feed thing.
Oh...and NO garter toss either!
I wore a blue garter, I didn’t throw it. I also didn’t feed the cake. Messes up the lipstick which is very important.
I’m over on another thread handing somebody their head.