“What you’re missing is that you unknowingly made the assertion that girls/women are innately dependent on boys/men because the girls who want to camp and “learn life skills” have no choice but to use an institution founded and created by men and boys.”
Don’t blame these girls who have joined the Cub/Boy Scouts.
If you are going to blame someone, blame the BSA.
Now, if the BSA is a great organization, why are they letting the BSA go co-ed?
If the BSA is co-ed, how can it still be an organization?
Why do you care that the BSA in now co-ed?
Why do you think girls and their women scout leaders are incapable of establishing the kind of scouting organization they want?