I am sorry for your sister! What a terrible thing to happen for her children.
I agree women should not be in military - definitely not combat - but I will never withhold my high respect and gratitude to those who indeed VOLUNTEER to do it when it’s being allowed. (My favorite cousin was an Army soldier.)
I don’t believe women should be in combat roles in the military.
I detest the people who are making that happen, but it is important to me to state that I do not IN ANY WAY extend that sentiment to women who are in those roles currently.
If I were in their shoes, I would try to go into any role I had the desire to go into, if the rules let me. Nothing but respect there.
I simply don’t think they should be there, and it has nothing to do with disrespect towards women. Far from it. My contempt is directed towards policy makers.