Not to speak for others but what came to my mind when I ready your first post in this thread was that you might benefit from prayerful meditation on the first few verses in the seventh chapter of the book of St Matthew.
Sorry Mr Ramsbotham if I've spoken out of turn.
? What in the world are you talking about?
Instead, why don’t you both join in prayers for the repentance of Barbara and the man she is “one flesh with” in marriage for their consistent lying, pro abortion beliefs, and other GOPe deceptions?
Praying that the Holy Spirit does His job... conviction of sin... is a good work of prayer.
So please join in, and Lord bless.