I hate to burst your bubble but smart strong women are the traditional mothers of the strong men created in this country for the past 242 years.
According to your convoluted theory women who are feminine, virtuous, good cooks, keep a clean home and care for their children are dumb, weak, boring doormats. You might want to rethink that. :-)
My theory is not convoluted but your thinking is. A woman can be a woman as God designed her and still be strong and raise confident young men and women. Women can be sassy and smart asses but that doesn’t make them right or appealing or strong.
Look at America’s history since WWII and the 60’s cultural revolution, and tell me how much safer and stronger our nation has become. Boys and girls don’t even understand the basic biology that there are only two sexes. A child can attend school for 13 years and still not learn to read. Mothers dump their kids in daycare so they don’t have to care for them because childcare is hard work. I daresay that more men know how to cook than women these days. We have 17 year old punks calling our elected officials “bitches” and no one gives them a correction. 54 million babies have been aborted over the past 45 years. Criminals pour over our borders unchecked. The percent of all births to unmarried women is 39.8%. So how is it that our world has improved given that so many women like to think of themselves as smart, sassy and strong?