“We should do the same here in America.”
Sorry, but we have something in the US called “the Constitution”, and that specifies that we don’t punish people for crimes that they didn’t commit. If you love the Israeli method so much, go move there.
The IDF policy of destroying the the homes of terrorists and their families has worked to decrease the number of attacks.
Bombing and terrorism are acts of war and there is no due process on the battlefield.