Since we already have “frozen embryos” then standard pro-life tenets of faith would demand they get some sort of chance where possible (some of these embryos are messed up and never would grow, but others are not).
The wrong here, if any (given surrogacies targeted to adoption by suitable parents) is far less than that of abortion. Be careful not to raise inadvertent objections to adoption. “Consider the troubled mother” is a natural message to go alongside of surrogacies (which are currently legal anyhow).
Parents are at best custodians. I could have wished that I personally was adopted out to better circumstances sometimes. Dealing with a life full of being gunshy of hate has its consequences.
Human responsibility is at an all time low, attribute this to the loss of faith and the belief in God
In adoption, a child is--- everyone agrees --- in a tragic situation and urgent need because his parents are dead, had rights terminated from abuse or neglect or crime, or simply were not willing / able to parent him. Adoptive family steps in to supply, as best they can, what he needs. It's admittedly imperfect, but it's for his sake because he was needy.
It is child-need-centered. Every kind of vetting is done, every criterion is enforced, every regulation in place to make sure, as far as a "law" can make things sure, that the child will receive the permanent, stable, forever family he deserves, and the care he needs.
This surrogacy crap is a violation from the word Go. The child is deliberately brought into being to be deprived. Are you getting that? His deprivation is intentional. He is intentionally begotten bereft of his natural ties.
It is centered from the git-go, not on the child's needs but on the adults' wants. Adult-centered, I daresay consumer-centered. Predicated on the market. Predicated on the child being a kind of expensive hobby, brought into being by veterinary methods and valued as a prize pet is valued.
No more.
Don't say it's "love." If they loved him they would not have created him in a way that purposefully violates his dignity, deprived from the day he was begotten.