And if that marriage fails, there is the ‘child support’ that must be paid for 18 years. In today’s world men need to realize that foreign women want a green card, children, and money....the marriage may just be a means to an end!
I believe women need to have justice for rape, sexual harassment, and domestic violence. However, those who plot and plan to get into USA with fake love, to get children who are citizens, or that green card...that is a travesty! People with children are tied together forever, or at least until their death! SAD.
Planning a family should be done out of love, and desire to be together always...even though it does not always end up that way!
I should have been more clear: These are women here legally (and permanently) - sometimes full citizens; they just don’t come from the secular Western culture. The “mail-order bride” route is risky.
Not all foreign women are the same. Even narrow it down to Mexicans or any one ethnicity and they are not all the same. Even narrow it down to just legal, or just illegal, from the same country and they are not all the same.
Some seek love, some seek money and materialism, some seek a commonsense-business-like relationship, some are devoutly religious and some are ho’s.