Frankly I think we’re already there; I work with more “cat ladies” than ex-wives. NJ.com recently had a story about where the single people live in NJ (as though it was a dating tip), but it listed all the ghettoes first - people there simply don’t marry anyway. Beyond them, it was clear that for the dwindling number of young whites in NJ, marriage is off the table - so much so that the state government recently began reviewing the laws governing divorce (specifically “alimony for life”) because as liberal as they are, they are realizing that marriage is basically dead within a generation or two of the “sexual revolution” - and the consequences are devastating. We are importing children from the Third World because we produce few to none, and these people DO NOT assimilate - and the Americans being taxed for their upkeep are fleeing in droves.
I’ve been married a long time; I couldn’t imagine being a young man today in terms of dating/marriage.
I hear you. I have been married 46 years. I would hate to be a young guy today. My son is mid 30s and never married. His long term female relationships have been a disaster, one after the next. After several of these he is not even trying anymore. He plays golf and finds it much more enjoyable.