“”And while I help my wife, I dont do the lions share of hair care for her.””
What is even a portion of hair care you do for her? I bet you are the one to clear out the bathroom drains after shampoos... My hair is short and I have to clear the drains as they still get clogged with hair. I can’t even imagine the amount of time spent on hair as long as you describe. My daughter at 45 still insists on letting her hair grow BUT then knots it on top of her head which has never made sense to me. She stopped listening to me many years ago. LOL
Ironically, when my wife had short hair, she hated it more than I did! When looking at an old photo of herself with cropped hair, she asked me why in the world I ever “let” her do that.
Honestly, were it not for me, she would probably wear it a foot shorter. But YES, *I* unclog the drains. (Patting back firmly) LOL
P.S. Tell your daughter that most men heartily approve of her hairstyle choice. *smile* I LOVE hair worn up, BTW. Very elegant!