Posted on 01/17/2018 5:41:55 AM PST by Kaslin
So has the default position of men being in charge, and that's changed.
I dealt with it alright, but it was a negotiation, not capitulation.
Good luck with that.
Allow me to elaborate upon my comment.
Apparently the woman’s complaint was that Ansari did not read her “non-verbal cues” and forced her to explicitly say what she wanted and did not want.
Soon, this will be classified as a form of sexual assault also.
As heterosexual guys know from experience, many women apparently think that it is against the rules for them to tell men what they want. If she wants red wine instead of white, he should know. If he’s using a technique she doesn’t like or does not use one she does, he should know. If he is doing something she might like, but is not doing it the way she likes, he should know.
If she wants to do something, he should know. If she does not want to do something, he should know. If she is forced to tell him one way or the other because he cannot read her “non-verbal cues,” he is a dreadful fellow, possibly even a rapist.
And if the guy does not know, she damned well isn’t going to tell him! She will cry to her female friends and relatives about it later, though.
I am older now, so the rules may be different. Women my age don’t have time for games and do indeed make it clear what they want and don’t want. But if I were a young man, I would hire an attorney to approach a young woman on my behalf with instructions to negotiate what explicitly will happen and what is expected.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aog_zGmWbFI
Or...
“...among men of about 15 to 30 years old, ever-increasing numbers are checking out of society altogether, giving up on women, sex and relationships and retreating into pornography, sexual fetishes, chemical addictions, video games and, in some cases, boorish lad culture, all of which insulate them from a hostile, debilitating social environment created, some argue, by the modern feminist movement.” - Milo Yiannopoulos
...be wary of granting anonymity to a source. ‘Grace’...would not talk without such a cloak. Yet she has not reported sexual assault to the police. It is not clear, then, why she should be granted reprieve from the public scrutiny that Ansari is now getting for his poor sexual decisions. On all three counts, the Babe story fails: It depends entirely on a single anonymous persons tale. As all reporters learn: Sometimes a story is really interesting. But that doesnt make it a reportable story.”
http://www.nationalreview.com/article/455568/aziz-ansari-babe-story-journalism-fails-clickbait-wins
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