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my husband and I aren’t legally married. We dont’ get married due to the horrendous matriarchy, errrr I mean “child” support rules here in NYS.

His ex-shrew IS legally married to her six figure 2nd husband and on his insurance. CSEU doesn’t count her husband’s income in the calculations, but they certainly would count MY income as we are the payORs. The new calculation form (since Obummer in 2010) wants to know EVERYONE’s income in the paYOR’s household (even if dad is housing his mother who is on social security—her income is fodder for consideration in paying out CS)
Title IV-D of the Social Security Act (thanks, Bill “the Rapist” Clinton) pays out “incentives” to CSEUs who have the highest amount of matriarchy, errrrr I mean “child” support in the coffers. In other words, custody is 99.9% awarded to the biomom and dad is told to shake his wallet upside down.

Gay marriage killed domestic partnership insurance as well.

So therefore, my husband can’t go on my insurance at work nor can he afford insurance for himself so he has to pay the penalty—he’s pushing 50 and we’ve been together longer than his first sham of a marriage which lasted almost 10 years. He still has two “kids” left to go paying CS at $185 a week—both of which have been alienated from him by his ex-shrew and her family. Aged 19 and 15 (no CS does NOT end at 18 here in NYS). As long as the 19 year old keeps in college (she’s failing out of community college) the cash cow keeps on flowing.