Can confirm.
Alabamian, female. Dated a guy who was 32 when I was 19. He was a musician of some small renown.
The young girls always fall in love with the boys in the band, to paraphrase Alabama. (The Band.)
When I was that age, the legal drinking age was 19, so there’s that.
I know a very happily married couple those were their ages when they started dating, but they also kept it on the down low until she turned 20. 33 and 20 sounds far less controversial than 32 and 19 - 20 sounds much more “adult”. Depends on the individuals involved and the motives behind starting the relationship. He was very seriously looking for someone to have a permanent relationship with, not a fling, and wasn’t looking for a 19 year old in particular...they just caught each other’s eye and became acquainted. The rest is history.