[Albion Wilde]

The goal of a guy’s advances should be to convince the woman to be attracted to him. Right now is a bad time for men to be making crude, unwanted advances toward women. But “crude”, “unwanted” ... some women might love that.

It's not something that a gentleman should ever presume. That kind of thing should require permission and be undoubtedly consensual and private. You don't use a flamethrower to light a candle.

[cymbeline]

“It’s not something that a gentleman should ever presume”

Acting like a gentleman or being a gentleman in real life is no way to make it in show business these days.