Lol - our son-in-law is from Dutch farmers as well. He and my daughter purchased two of the properties shortly after they married in 2008. They sold one a few years later and are just working the one to make a living. We never lived on a farm, but were surrounded by them as we lived in the country as well.
When my daughter was 5 years old, I remember asking her one day, just to see what she’d say, “Honey, what would you like to be when you grow up?” Well, she answered without missing a beat, “A farmer’s wife.” I was quite surprised....I wondered where THAT came from lol. In any case, she knew what she wanted and that’s what she’s doing!