No, you are smart.
Pedos who groom are damn GOOD at it. They groom whole COMMUNITIES. They are especially good at grooming moms. Single moms are best.
Kids just don’t have the power or wisdom to know what to do when Mom’s beloved boyfriend who always gets me toys and ice cream and he’s so funny, says the way he touches me means he loves me. My daddy has been gone and he’s like a Daddy and maybe that is how daddies love their kids.
The Pedo who molested me, when he was busted 5 years ago, had a large community of people fighting in the comments section of the papers how he COULD NEVER have done such things, how well they knew him, how much he truly loved children... I’m reading these accounts of how he could never have done such a thing with clear memories of him doing worse than they could have imagined. These pervs fool people well.
When I was a kid, there was an older man in our neighborhood who loved kids supposedly because he didn’t have any. We would all go sit with him on the front porch and his wife would bring us cookies. It was so weird.