So you have done nothing to fight the communists and you want a veteran whose wife lost family fighting communist to eat your crap?
You should be thanking for helping to keep your partying ass safe.
There’s no need to be hostile. I am not being hostile. I am trying to understand you. If you are indeed a vet, I salute you. But that makes your initial attitude all the more puzzling. Why not just say “yes the north was worse but let’s not overlook Diem’s crimes” or something like that. Why the defensiveness?