You may have heard this joke:
When you get to heaven, there will be three surprises:
1. You’ll see a lot of folks there you didn’t expect to see there.
2. There will be a lot of people missing that you expected to see there.
3. You’re there.
Also, FWIW. I don’t see the choice as “heaven vs hell”. I see it as “eternal life vs death”.
or Hope (with God) or Hopeless (complete separation from God)....