Wow. In my own experience, I can get along with black men a lot easier than women. The women I encounter seem to have a huge chip on their shoulders. An openly hostile look on their faces. I just pretend not to notice and treat them as pleasantly as I can. Of course, you meet a nice, Christian black lady and they are the sweetest people you could ever meet.
Do you live in California? The white Christian women I know are kind, sweet, and nice. Maybe it’s just a preference you have.