IMHO, you are a despicable, major-league a*shole and, sadly, likely don’t have the self awareness to recognize it.
“Meanie” Mene looks like he stuck his foot in it for a moment.
But we have to exercise the same degree of circumspection all around if we want to honor God. Do it towards Bolling, then do it towards Mene. The goose’s sauce is also for the gander.
That’s one thing that has taught me to be circumspect. If I were caught in this situation, what would be the most profitable thing to address to me? Look to the golden rule. It needn’t be flattery or insincere compliment, but it shouldn’t fly off the handle either. Enough held back that there is actually room for the grace of God.
Maybe this happened to Mene here so that something worse won’t happen to Mene in the future.