If I were to go to a college (a big maybe), I would never donate. The money that could be donated would be put to better use buying myself a guitar.
I gave a bit to to my college until a few year ago, when they had a “womyn”/femanist month. Yes, that is how they spelled it. every campus event that moth was all feminism.
They sent me a fundraising letter and email that month. I respond to them with concerns about that using the spelling “women.” They were quick to respond with teh PC spelling. They will never receive another dime.