“There is nothing Christian about judging one another.”
Actually, the entire Bible is a textbook on how to judge one another.”
We are not to judge hearts - but we are most definitely called to judge actions. That is discernment of right and wrong, according to Gods’ Law, which is why reprobates so much despise the wisdom of discernment - because they despise God. They hate God, they hate themselves, and they hate all who point out their sin. They have willfully driven real love from their hearts - that is why we may say they have become “demonic narcissists.”
What the sodomites seek is indifference to their sin. But to be indifferent to sin is to truly despise one’s neighbor; for, as the parable of the ‘Good Samaritan’ teaches, the opposite of true love is not “hate,” but rather it is indifference.