sorry folks....the chances of something bad happening with a non bio male watching your children is too high a risk..
Agreed—household rule here of “no male babysitters.”
Men and women are wired differently to begin with, and throw the rampant effects of porn into the mix, and one plays Russian roulette by employing men in this fashion.
Nope, no male would be alone with my kids. Sorry, not even family whom I trust.
I’ve caught heat for this, but my policy is to never allow my children to be alone with a male, ever, except for my dad and father in law.
No uncles or cousins, sorry, and if that makes me a bad person, then I’m a bad person whose daughters are at a lower risk of molestation.
The very last concern is that I may offend someone, because, well, life is not a popularity contest. Somebody please inform my wife of this. Her Pollyanna worldview is gonna get us all killed and/or molested, IMO.