Do the men in these extended families participate in raising the children? Of course.
Thanks for helping to make my point.
It depends on the culture. I’m sure that you are aware of the fact that in many cultures child rearing is considered “women’s work.” The nuclear family is a rather new development in the history of human civilization.
“Merriam-Webster dates the term back to 1947, while the Oxford English Dictionary has a reference to the term from 1925; thus it is relatively new.
-Wikipedia