And if she lies to you about that little detail, you are in a world of hurt.
Find a counselor and end the marriage ASAP.
Holy Smokes. That sounds like the voice of experience.
About that...
See, it's not polite to admit the core of feminism is homosexuality. Once you do, sifting out the bad seed becomes much easier. At any rate, that should be an automatic out for a marriage although normally I'm a hardcore opponent of divorce.