Yes. What they look like and whether they entertain you Princess is what really matters.
I wasn’t referring to myself, but a good friend, who happens to be male.
His wife is a fat slob who spends her day in sweats playing on the computer. She does nothing else.
He sees good looking smart, well dressed , interesting women at work every day.
I keep warning her but she doesn’t listen and I assume that means she doesn’t care.
If She doesn’t, why should he?