I quit reading when the first line was uncontrolled name calling, especially, on such a serious topic.
You have no business raising children.
Seriously, you should adopt them out, otherwise the child could spend half their life recovering from your projected hostility.
Don't preach to me.
YOU started this.
I was talking to someone else about how great my buddy and his wife are doing raising their kids.
Then you pipe in, uninvited, saying how terrible they are and how miserable the kids are.
You don't know them.
You don't know the kids.
And you don't know me.
So, "kindly" keep your uninformed and unwanted "opinions" to yourself.
ASSHOLE!
And you have no business telling anyone whether it is their business to raise kids. I would have thought I’d see stuff like this on DU, but not on FR. This is a different place that it was in 1998.