Totally agree!
I was born in the 60s schooled in the 70s and 80s and didn’t know there was racism until 2008.
While on active duty through the 70's and 80's the bridges didn't get any wider but they remained solid. Later, while working in industry and teaching until retirement, I can still say the same.
I started running across the whiny victim syndrome at the very end and that was a factor in deciding to retire.
However, I can categorically state that in the past 8 years the bridges have been destroyed and I believe that has been on purpose. It was done for the political gain of the dimrats.