Not to sound sarcastic but perhaps the men have more important things to say than she or her type have. The men could care less about the matching color of their clothes and shoes, their eye makeup, their hair color, their date the night before and on and on. If you have nothing of importance to say, keep your mouth shut, you will learn more by listening than talking. (Yes I’m finished. :)
Young men should note this woman’s name. Avoid her (and her kind) so as to minimize your later life grief. What a shrew and loser.