[BJ1]

Can somebody explain exactly what he is accused of? So far all I heard is he called one woman “Hot Chocolate.” She never asked BOR to stop. She never told him she didn’t like it. She said she was “afraid” to do so. But when the allegations started to come out, she came forward too. Big deal. Does Hot Chocolate know what men call each other when women aren’t around? It can be brutal sometimes.

Anyways was he accused of groping women or just using language like Hot Chocolate? I remember I heard men in the armed forces would cross the street on base if a woman was approaching. Just so he wouldn’t be too close to her. Why? Because the atmosphere of getting accused of sexual harassment was thick and the guys just wanted to segregate themselves as much as they could do.

[saminfl]

You can’t tell a woman she looks good anymore?

[Starboard]

I remember I heard men in the armed forces would cross the street on base if a woman was approaching. Just so he wouldn’t be too close to her. Why? Because the atmosphere of getting accused of sexual harassment was thick and the guys just wanted to segregate themselves as much as they could do.

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And eventually the men will be accused of segregating themselves from the women, so its a gotcha either way. The men can’t win. They cannot afford to make the slightest misstep or their careers will be ruined.

How did we as a country get to be this neurotic where everyone if offended all the time by anything?

[gogeo]

Perhaps he bought into the lie that men and women are the same. The workplace is different since women entered it in a big way. Just ask any man employed by a corporation during the '80s and '90s.

For better or worse it's a done deal. Guys need to learn to be smart and not create opportunities to get accused or sued.

It is what it is.