I have not experimented with firewalls for at least 10 years, but I suspect it might help to stop the MS crapware and spyware. The problem however is the arms race between the firewall and other OS components and apps to get low in the network stack. I would recommend turning off networking but that defeats the purpose of having a computer. But NAT routing should provide most people protection from incoming connection attacks and safe browsing will protect them on their outgoing connections provided they can turn off auto-update.
Absolutely agree with you. Have someone competent set up your new computer as you described, use a router, and enjoy years of trouble-free driving.