If you don’t believe the Bible then none of this will make sense to you even though the idea that your intrinsic value as a person does not depend upon your particular role should not be beyond your grasp. Most people know that they have as much intrinsic value as their boss. Same with women.
If you do believe the Bible, you should know better.
There is nothing in Christianity which suggests that women are to be subordinate to men. What if the husband is a Moslem, is the woman to be commanded to raise their children as Moslems? What if he is an atheist? Is the woman supposed to tamely submit to his beliefs?
Old Testament proclamations were issued when civilization among the Hebrews was limited to a pastoral society which no longer exists. Is the adultress to be stoned? Once again this is a Islamic concept, not Christian.
God never intended that the Bible cover all possible situations in the future. Again that is an Islamic concept.
Should we be marrying sisters as was done in Old Testament times?
Sacrifices by killing animals also went out of style, should that be resumed as well?