What equality is in subordination?
The equality that roles do not lessen or increase your intrinsic value nor the love God has for you. Men and women are of equal intrinsic value and are equally loved by God.
Again, demanding equality of roles in the name of equality of value is a modern-day confusion and lie. The confusion and lie dates all the way back to the beginning in the garden when Eve was deceived into thinking her value was based on her performance and Adam went along with it.
Differing God-given roles and purpose engenders peace and tranquility in a society and in no way detracts from one's intrinsic value of standing with God.