[[A teenage boy was told by school leaders that he had to “tolerate” undressing in front of a female student and to make it as “natural” as possible,]]
Or what? What the hell are they going to do if he doesn’t force himself to ‘feel comfortable’? Cripes- Now we’re being ordered how to feel about something? What the hell is this? North Korea?
It's Oceania (or Eurasia, or Eastasia; pick one).
And, TPTB are playing O'Brien, and they want to "get inside you", just as O'Brien "got inside" Winston Smith. They don't punish thoughtcrime, they cure it, and the cure is worse than punishment.