Men are victims because: (1) it is legal to discriminate against them; and (2)there are legitimate reasons why the sexes predominate in certain occupations, stay-home motherhood being one of them.
I do not personally know any women who can afford to stay home. I know I couldn’t.
As for men being discriminated against, I think that is greatly exaggerated. What examples do you have?
http://www.deptofnumbers.com/unemployment/demographics/