That woman is legally liable for having created a hostile working environment and so is her employer if you want to get right down to it. The suicide of that teenage boy is blood on her hands, so the court appears to suspect and I happen to agree. That is the law, like it or not. As far as my “bullying” as you put it, seems to me that I was considerably less so than the person you’re defending. I’m not his employer or superior nor is he mine, thankfully. So, he can continue to fling spittle all he wants, and I can continue to respond as I see fit, funny how that works.