For a moment let’s ignore the religious and moral reasons. Marriage for man gives him what, in our present culture, that he can’t get without it? The traditional thinking would be to get married for love, sex, companionship. Today, the women give that away before marriage.
But unlike 50 years ago, the state has come in and said the marriage vows until death do you part are not a real thing. No matter what the two said on their wedding day. Thus marriage has become a contract with the state. A contract that typically has the man come out of a divorce significantly worse for wear. The family courts and law are simply biased against men. The soon to be ex-wife can accuse the husband of hitting her or abusing the kids. She will get him arrested on her word alone and a restraining order will soon follow kicking him out of his own home. Then he will proceed to lose half his assets and pay child support and possibly alimony. He will suffer all of this even if he didn’t do anything wrong. Maybe his wife just got bored. Maybe she is having an affair. It doesn’t matter, the marriage is over just because one party wants it to be over. And women initiate the divorce 70% of the time.
So the logical thing to do is weigh the pros and cons of getting married. The pros don’t really exist in our modern culture as all the old benefits of marriage can be attained by simply dating. The cons are terrible.
Now if you add in the religious and moral reasons to get married things get more complicated. Where are all the good women? The ones that haven’t been ridden around the block a half dozen times already? What do today’s women actually bring to the table that is worth the risk of a divorce? Obviously men are making that answer clear by delaying marriage later and later.....these women increasingly do not exist.
“What do today’s women actually bring to the table that is worth the risk of a divorce? “
Not a damn thing.
That is why 100% of the shaming is on the guys to ignore the failure of the people that support this crap to raise quality females, or to prevent the state from rigging so many laws that refuse a husband to a wage slave.
Not once do I ever see these people rant at women. NOT ONCE!
Because they are p-whipped cowards.
Guys aren’t stupid
The ones that haven’t been ridden around the block a half dozen times already?
Half dozen would be VERY lucky for a guy for an attractive woman over the age of 24 today. With casual hookup apps like Tinder and 100 "dating" websites, many have had 6+ partners in the last 3 months with the top 5% of guys literally hooking up with an unbelievable # of women.