So very true. It’s been 11 months since my bride of 35 years lost her battle with cancer. We were married at 25; bought our first house while engaged; both had MBAs.
Now our only son is almost 32 and is no rush at all to get married. Most of his college friends are still single. I’m told it’s a different world today.
But when you find that one person meant for you, no matter whether it be in high school or when you’re later in life, you just KNOW it. I still remember the first time I saw my future wife and exactly what she was wearing. She always told me she thought that was creepy, but I think secretly she loved that I did.
Hope your “bad news” wasn’t BAD NEWS, and my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Let’s just say it is my turn to be his rock much like you were for your wife.
Your story brought tears to my eyes. It is my hope that your son will have what you and your wife had. He has your marriage as an example! Sadly we are teaching the younger generation to pursue sex instead of romance. Hedonism instead of commitment. Self above all. Your marriage taught your son incredible values....far more than mere words could say. He won’t settle for anything less is my guess. My prayer for him will be that God prepares for him a mate that is perfect for him. That it will be a blessing and comfort to you.