Note that homos and trans life styles in the military were unaffected by this.
Someday there is going to be reckoning. Adultery per se is not proscribed. It is handled under Article 134 of the UCMJ conduct prejudicial to good order and discipline or bringing discredit upon the armed services or possibly Article 133 - conduct unbecoming an officer and gentleman.
Now, why is homosexual promiscuity and philandering ok, but heterosexual promiscuity not? Because one behavior is in support of diversity and the other promotes sexual stereotypes or some garbage?