For guys, it’s usually an arm around the shoulder. Same gesture.
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Not in a restaurant.
Like going to the mens room.
Look straight ahead.
Do not speak unless a general statement towards the ‘crowd’
Speak rule waived if you know all in room.
Around shoulders and patting on ass reserved for athletic ventures IF you are a participant.
I am NOT receptive to hugs....hugs are only good if wanting to make sure the other dude aint packing (frisk)
Not homophobic, had a thing against ‘Aunt Sylvia’ hugging me also.
Get a kick out of the ‘old’ movies from the 30s & 40s where the two men or women talking about the gay party they went to or the statement ‘We had a gay time last night’
Etc etc etc
Understood. But I was picturing athletes for this rule.