You can fool the frontal lobes with mis-education.
Nerve endings that connect straight to the limbic system, however, are immune to leftist propaganda. They want what they want, and pity the fool who denies them.
You have it right.
Nature ultimately conquers nurture, when that nurture is inherently artificial and unnatural.
Christianity, for one, seeks to elevate and humanize the marital union, but it does not do so by denying the inherent differences between men and women. When churches attempt to do that (as with either feminism or homoeroticism), they have left the path of spiritual wisdom and embraced carnal heresy.
I used to employ a crazy preacher at the business I used to run. He told me that what a woman wants is,”A man who will TELL her what she wants.” He must have known something, he had been married thirty years to a woman who called him MISTER, no one ever heard him called by his first name by his wife and he had eight children who treated him with great respect.