God would properly be called an “it” rather than “he” “she” “heshe” “they” or “zhe”.
Very broadly put, the masculine gender is associated with creation, whereas the feminine gender is associated with nurturing.
God gained the pronoun “He” for a good reason, although also concerned with matters that we would think of in the province of a “she.” Before something can be nurtured, it has to be created. The “He” role runs deeper here.