This guy gets it correct. The pacifist is a moral coward. He won’t even take life to defend his family. If he wants to give his life up for nothing that is his prerogative but as a husband and father he has an obligation to defend his family and his physical condition dictates he can’t do in mano-mano.
Further he is perfectly willing to call on another man to take life if need be to maintain his self-righteous piety. This woman needs to find a man who really loves her, he doesn’t.
All of us have fears but we can overcome them. I don’t carry my courage around on my chest for all to see but it’s never far from reach when someone is messing with my family. Some pacifists have no difficulty displaying their cowardice to others.