Working girls may enjoy it very much - until they are being worked like men (with no choices). Very bitter at that point...
As for raising children/caring for families, I work with several women who are to selfish for either - and thankfully knew it years ago when they were child-bearing age. It seems many resent their decisions, because they certainly resent the black & Hispanic women who have moved past having children to now being grandmothers (while the childless white women buy replacement pets every so many years as they age & die faster than human children).
As for myself, I have a wife and children and because I “work like a girl” I can be very involved in raising my children instead of living at an office and getting updates electronically. Never missed a sports event, can help with their homework, prepare meals for them - I get to be an actively-involved parent.
OK, well that’s good. Hope the best for you. Thought I was talking to a girl, however. You fooled me, but I think I get what you are trying to say.