Are we discussing the mother or the daughter.?
Your description fits the daughter.
The reason I didn’t save the tabloids etc is because they are. Well tabloids.
Otoh if mom is staying out nights socializing, who is staying with the kids. Getting their drinks of water Making sure they eat breakfast before leaving for school etc. If she’s sleeping in, who makes sure they get up in time.
Too much experience with female lush in family to know the quiet supportive role of the father.
The nanny was with the kiddos.