Yes, this is 'who we are' now as a society, denial of/inability to provide for someone else's needs is "racism" or its equivalent.
Taking care of sick children is not Communism it is rational and pragmatic.
At some point the child will end up sick if it doesn’t get it’s medication at that time an OR visit and hospital stay will cost tens of thousands of dollars. I assure you the insurance covers OR and Hospital stays.
They system is being foolish.