Where did I say that? I said she "gets pregnant." Unless she was raped, she had the final word on whether she would have sex or not.
And I don't see the father(s?) of her children breaking their arms and legs and finally killing them. So however responsible or irresponsible he (they) was (were), this is not about him (them).
However this doomed little boy came into existence, he has a natural father out there somewhere.
That natural father is AWOL for whatever reason. He's the sperm vendor (oops, "donor") who disappears after he pocketing his pittance for his 5 ml of fatherhood; or he's the drunken hit-and-run inseminator, or the bye-bye husband (unlikely, with the lesbian dam, but possible) ---
For whatever reason, as I said, he's a gone dude. Thus he is, will-he or nill-he, one half of the problem.
The child has a natural right to his natural father for identity, for one half of his kinship universe, for providence, and yes, for protection.
The fact that the natural father never assumed his obligations, is part of the reason why this little boy is dead.