Many people of both genders are too used to getting their own way personally. I know people who, in a strange dichotomy, work like dogs and put crazy hours into their successful careers (and who clearly have good working relationships in their careers), who can’t, nor even really try, to maintain successful personal relationships. It’s a result of being porn-addled, non or anti-religious, unschooled in personal communications — which makes them completely selfish at a fundamental level. They can’t fathom the amount of “give” required to justify the amount of “take” they expect from their personal relationships.
I would clarify that by “personal relationship” I meant to say “romantic relationship.” I know guys who are great fun to be around in a group of guys, who will go out of their way to “help a brother out,” and yet I just shake my head at the way they view women.