I have a DNR and I consulted with no one in my family. I had a doc argue with me about my decision. I told him o understood exactly what I had signed and what it provided for. It is specific and detailed.
I don’t want someone else contriving my decision
But your signature in on the DNR. It was obviously your choice. The patients involved in this didn’t make that choice. Their Docs made the DNR choice without even consulting the families.